He Said He Didn’t Want Commitment. She Stayed Anyway. Now They’re Married.

He Said He Didn’t Want Commitment. She Stayed Anyway. Now They’re Married.

16/02/2022 Off By William Blake

While dating, you’ve probably got your antennas up for “red flags.” You know the ones: Is he overly critical of the wait staff? Does she seem to hate everything from her job to the guacamole? Does he seem to talk a lot about himself and ask very little about you?

Perhaps the toughest red flags to see fly — the biggest dating buzzkills — are those involving one party’s ability to see a future with you.

An ex, for instance, repeatedly told me he “wasn’t ready” to be in a relationship, despite planning dates, initiating daily phone calls and texting me all the time. I hadn’t even registered his commitment qualms until he mentioned, offhand, that we’d “be spending a lot less time together when you’re married someday.”

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